Tuesday, December 2, 2008

I'm Not a Role Model

I suck dick for a living... and I love it. I label myself a sex-crazed video slut, some of you claim I'm a porn star, and others call me a diseased whore. Whatever you choose to brand me is fine as long as we make one thing perfectly clear, I am NOT a role model.

I do not lead by example. I do not exemplify what you should be when you grow up. I am not anyone you should aspire to be like or try to emulate. I am in the porn industry, not the sex education business. And although I have made a few statements here and there warning people of the potential dangers that come with certain sexual activities, it is not my place or duty to do so. My job is to give you jack off material, nothing more, nothing less. Just because you see someone else doing something doesn't mean you should do it too.

I live my life according to how I see fit. I try to be cautious most of the time but more often than not temptation gets the best of me and inhibition goes out the window. This may come as no surprise to you but I'm really not smart, just lucky. Honestly I do alot of stupid things. Deeds that would be considered reckless and risky but for some reason or another I have lived through them virtually scot-free (with getting raped as the only exception). Honestly, who would want to follow in my footsteps? Your life is your responsibility. Your choices, your consequences.

19 comments:

Jonno said...

That's for damn sure! None of my business in any case

Anonymous said...

Like the stand that you take about not bein a role model.

The Priest said...

Hey man, we all do things that are risky! You just want to know who you do them with. I never had a porn star/some one that works in the porn industry as a hero...but I envy those who work in it, because they get so lucky most times!!!
My role models were always rock stars, who like porn actors, always risked themselves by doing something "risky"!
You might not be the best role model, but you're a damn sexy one!

Anonymous said...

I think ur my role model :)

Kevin said...

Wyler, I'm a relatively new reader of your blog (within the past month or so). I don't remember how I came across it, exactly, but I can tell you that I might come across two dozen blogs per week. Very few of these are ones I check back to regularly.

Yours, however, is. It's not because your dick is posted all over the page or because you blog about your sexual life. It's because you show depth, character, human interests, and a little bit of emotional vulnerability. It's because you like video games, and because you demonstrate humility, and because you don't just value shallow hedonism.

As a young man, regardless of my sexuality, I appreciate getting an intimate glimpse into someone else's mind, someone that resembles me in certain aspects. And I can't even speak for even younger men who may be struggling with their own sexual expression.

You may not be a conventional role model, but you certainly serve a positive role. And you should know, I thank you for that.

tornprince said...

I dont consider you to be my role model although your life sounds chock full of fun. I guess I sorta live vacariously through you.. i love to read about all the action(minus the bad) that you get..

Alan said...

Hey Man, I really enjoy reading your blog. You always manage to keep me interested and coming back to read your next post.

At least you understand your risk-taking nature. Better than those who think they can sail through life without consequences!

Cheers
Alan

Anonymous said...

What gave you the idea you were considered a role model? Did somebody appoint you theirs? I guess an aspiring porn star might admire you and think he had something to learn from your example, because it seems you have handled your career pretty well. But role models usually tend to be something like father figures. You're really not quite old and experienced enough for that yet.

Love Uncut said...

And that's EXACTLY why I LOVE watching you, Mason! You get me all wet & bothered...no more, no less. LOL

Ben said...

So let me get this straight. You claim your not a model who's into role playing games, yet you obviously pose for pictures and play World of Warcraft. Sounds like a role playing model to me!

Greg said...

I have to agree with Kevin! I enjoying coming back to you and your blogs because you're genuine and I too live how you give us that glipse into your life!

kelc1275 said...

you're 23, im 23, most of your other fans are probably older, and hopefully, there isn't a big enough age gap between you and your younger fans where they can grow up in your footsteps. while we admire you, i don't think that we want to follow you (except into the bedroom), we just wish we had what you have...striking looks, loving partner...the list goes on forever.

cheers!

steve said...

I would say, no person on this earth should follow anyone( others!!) examples! I mean humanity is a swirling mass of mistakes, and misguided emotions and extreme confusion!

The only role model I believe we can follow is ourselves. We can only see things as such, and through a very limited view of others. Its near impossible to be a "role model" as such. To be a role model, you must be perfect in my eyes and my world. Anything less is no worth while.

Always love reading your blog. Always full of insinuating intellect.

sjchan said...

You do not intend to be a role model or even claim to be one, but I do respect the fact that you make the effort to tell people just that. You are a great performer who helps me get off every time I hear you moaning in pleasure, and that makes you talented and very good at what you do. If people really want a role model they should evaluate hat they want to do with their lives and look there.

Cedric Nu said...

Ur life is full of risks but so fun. I'd love to live a life like urs. That would be great!

Fitzy Xfitz0284x said...

Man, you inspire me with your strength and perseverance. We're almost alike its just that you're white and i'm asian.. but hey keep it up and keep your chin up! :P

Rav's_Desire said...

Let's face it, no one is a role model in this god forsaken world. If you suck dick, then that is what you do, plain and simple. I probably won't take that path, but my destiny awaits me. So I'll wait.
Risk is everywhere, so don't take extra caution, because we all have a big risk of life/death. We have the same risk as a meteorite landing on Earth and hits you directly.
Just take that into account, OK?
Have fun doing what you do best
Ciao
Xx_RavsDesire_xX

Anonymous said...

hey mason you're not my role model but i totally identify with ya! i'm 22 and have been with a lotta hot boys. i love cock and it really turns me on that so many studs have wanted to pound my ass! always safe so don't see where the harm in it is: we're just a cute gay boy with healthy sex drives! so good to know there are others out there like me :)

jm said...

Mason, with this post you seem to be becoming a little frustrated.

Please don’t burden yourself with second guessing everything you do or say because of other peoples expectations. Unfortunately you can’t control others’ expectations or how they identify with what you say. Bear with it. This is Your blog. Stay true to Your Self and please don’t overconsider what you post. Here, You’ve let them know they have to live their own lives. Well done. That’s all you can do.

As for me, I feel as if I’m reading the blog of a person who is being true to himself. That’s one of the many reasons I keep coming back to see what you have to say. (Another being that you do it for me, no question there – OK, so I’ll admit that’s the main reason. Nothing wrong with that is there?)

The definition of a role model includes “A person who serves as an example of a positive behaviour, especially in some specific field” as well as a “person whose behaviour is copied by others”, “a model: someone worthy of imitation”.

I certainly don’t see you as someone to copy. You’re not infallible.

Positive behaviour? In some areas yes eg the attitude, emotive expression and common generality you show in your posts, in others, not so much. I don’t agree with everything you’ve posted but then the world would be a very boring place if everyone was the same.